Strictly Miss Brown

Just had a brilliant forced bi duo session with the inimitable Strictly Miss Brown. accompanied by a naughty schoolboy badly in need of punishment.

Miss Brown had lost patience with his poor performance in her classroom and brought him to the headmasters office. He was to receive a disciplinary spanking, flogging, paddling, caning and face fucking.

We took pity on his delicate buttocks and dressed him in black latex shorts. These protected him from being marked with bruises whilst I could still inflict considerable pain on his latex clad bottom.

The shorts had the added side effect of substantially amplifying every stroke of each implement to a volume far louder than can be achieved by striking bare skin. The paddle sounded like gunshots and the flogger like a bull whip crack.

The cane retained its characteristic whistling sound as it carved through the air en route to his ass. Upon impact emitting a very loud and pleasing report like a cannon shot echoing off my high ceiling.

The symphony I created was at times interrupted by whimpering and pleading but these outbursts where succinctly dealt with each time via a few sharp words from Miss Brown. Her experience and skill at domination is second to none, her discipline justly feared and her authority irresistible.

The session for the most part was about myself and her sub and her role was to be primarily as an observer. But each small involvement of hers in the session was like a work of art. I’m very impressed and can’t wait for another session where I can see a full demonstration of her mastery of corporal punishment!

At length I laid down my weapons of ass destruction and explained to the detainee in my charge the nature of his final punishment. Naturally, it would be a forced face fucking of a depth of brutality befitting his school yard crimes. To his credit he took my full 9 inches balls deep down his throat without gagging. Miss Brown noted this as evidence that he’d lied to her about the extent of his experience with cock.

He withdrew from my bigdownunder briefly to respond to her interrogation. Like a good boy he knows not to speak with his mouth full. He couldn’t conceal the truth from Miss Brown and confessed that he’d actually been sucking cock at every opportunity. Just two more things we’ll need to punish him for. Lying and being a cock slut.

With renewed vigour I thrusted full force down his throat until I was ready to cum then pulled out and shot a huge load all over his eager up turned face. Smiling beatifically up at us with gobs of cum dripping down his cheeks, and thanking us both for lessons and sperm bestowed.

Once our client had retreated to my bathroom to make himself respectable, Miss Brown whispered her compliments to me regarding my performance in comparison to other male escorts she’d booked in the past for forced bi sessions.

An oft repeated mantra amongst Mistresses I’ve sessioned with. = A surprising number of male escorts can’t get hard properly. Those who can eventually get hard hard, often can’t stay hard. Those who do manage to stay hard usually can’t cum when required.

I’ve never failed in this regard and my performance has become near legendary in Pro Domme circles. This session as well as many others came from word of mouth resulting from previous successful sessions. I love duo sessions and I hope this will be the first of many with the most elegant and intelligent of disciplinarians, Strictly Miss Brown ❤

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

TV Isabel and Helena

My long time regular and fellow pervert, Mike, booked a duo (trio) with TV Isabel , Helena and I the other night. A very good time was had by all. Mike loves cuckolding scenarios, TV s, stockings and voyeurism.

Our session was a roleplay scene where his wife and girlfriend had found out about one another. They were punishing him with some verbal humiliation, using him as an oral slave and forcing him to watch as they both had fun with a very well endowed Aussie stud.

Helena’s tits are adorably nicknamed jiji and juju! A fine pair and looked even finer liberally splattered in my cum at the end of the session.

As per Mike’s request they finished me off with Isabel’s stockinged foot stroking my balls while Helena expertly sucked me off. Mike proposed that I should cum on Isabel’s stockings but Helena playfully objected to this idea with the counter proposal that I should cum on her tits. Heated debate ensued. Stockings, tits, tits, stockings etc.

Happily I was able to resolve the argument since I’m a very heavy cummer by reassuring them I had a load more than sufficient to decorate both stockings on Isabel’s long, gorgeous legs and Helena’s ample bosom. The stockings were a mess but Isabel assured me lightweight nylon is the quickest and easiest thing to wash. Almost like they were designed to be spunked on.

Helena declined the wet wipes preferring to keep jiji and juju bathed in a healthy dose of vitamin S.

Helena’s ad description= blonde and busty 5’7 tall woman with 36DD breast, silky skin, a SEXY full figure, nice voluptuous, soft&curvy. I’m very relaxed and sensual, fun and friendly to all people.

Her advertised services = GFE, OWO, 69, CIM, MASSAGE, dinner date & overnight. Role Plays: Sexy Secretary, Mild Domination, Tie and Tease, Body Warship, Face sitting. Strap-on, Prostate massage, Golden shower, Cross-Dressing, Duo with TS or female friend, Foot Fetish and Party.

Isabel’s profile says she’s a Top with 8 inch cock fully functional hard and bottom with natural big ass. I do everything you want for your fantasy also fetish fantasy.

Her likes are listed as Dogging, Fetish Fairs, Hotels,Pubs, Anal, Sex. Big, Black Cocks, Bisexuality, Blow Jobs, Cock, Cum, Deep Throat, Dildos, Fisting, Forced-Bi, Fucking, Hard Sports. Straight Sex, Poppers, Pussy, Rimming, Sixty-Nine, Wanking, Watersports, Adult Baby, Babydolls. Basques, Corsets, Gloves, High Heels, Latex, Lingerie, Mini Skirts, PVC, Thigh Boots, Uniforms, Wigs, Age Play, Feet, Heavy Makeup, Nipples, Photo Sessions. Schoolgirl, Secretaries, Role Play, Verbal Abuse, Voyeurism and Crossdressing.

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

Charlie

I had a fun duo session last night with Charlie Green.

I got the call from Anna’s Angels agency to say my services were needed ASAP for a kinky double domination and forced bi session with Charlie and her client.

When I arrived I quickly said hi to Charlie, looking very sexy in a little nurses uniform top and naked from the waist down. Greeted her client who was spreadeagled on the bed with a big dildo up his bottom clearly having the time of his life. Then excused myself to go wash up quickly. When I returned Charlie kindly fixed me a drink, we clinked glasses and enjoyed a drink. Our client still impaled on 10 inches of silicone cock. The second I got undressed he had his lips around my Bigdownunder having lunged for it from across the room with his jaw almost unhinged, agape in eager anticipation of swallowing me balls deep into his throat.

Not a lot of forced component to this forced bi.

Charlie soon got him under control and following instructions again with a few good slaps across the buttocks to remind him who wears the strapon in that relationship. Speaking of which, Charlie wields a very mean strapon. Some time later after prolonged and energetic rogering of our gentleman friend from both ends. A tag team spitroast effort with repeated ass to mouth. At intervals when the play became too intense even for our very eager and enthusiastic cock and dildo recipient, we paused for a sip of wine a chat and a laugh. Then resumed with intensity redoubled. He took a truly impressive pounding from us both and when he couldn’t take another thrust we rewarded him with a load of cum in his mouth.

Charlie Green is the escort men and women dream about, she manifests class, and sophistication. Not only a lady of sexual prowess, coupled with model looks, but a burning desire to spend her time entertaining the likes of intellectual discerning gentleman.

Charlie’s companions instantly feel at ease by her charismatic, charming yet confident personality. She is a well-educated and refined women that always treats her lovers with compassion

Naturally she exudes style and intellect. She has so much to offer and can’t wait to accommodate your most cheeky rendezvous.

just THE FACTS

Will See: MEN, WOMEN AND COUPLES
Origin: EASTERN EUROPE
Languages: PERFECT ENGLISH
Location: LANCASTER GATE W2
Age: 20
Hair: BROWN
Eyes: BROWN
Height: 5’7″ / 170CM
Dress: 10
Curves: 34B
Smoking: NO
Tattoos or Piercings: NONE
Orientation: BISEXUAL
Availability: MOST DAYS
Available Hours: 10AM TO 3AM

wardrobe

Wardrobe:
Naughty Things:
Strap-on M
Toys

Uniforms:
Schoolgirl
Secretary
Nurse

enjoy LIST

GFE
DFK
OWO
COB
69
A-Level
Party+
Poppers
Rimming Giving
Role play
Sees women clients
Strap-on play
Striptease
W/S

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

Munch

munch milady

 

munch mariangela

munch munch

Milady Goddess , Mariangela and I attended the Fetlife under 35 Munch at Waxy O’Connor’s in Soho last night.

A Munch is a meet up for people into BDSM at a non fetish venue where the focus is on getting to know other kinksters over food and drink. People don’t dress up in fetish gear or engage in any BDSM play at the munch since they’re held at vanilla venues.

In this case the group had booked a private room within waxys with its own bar and entrances opening out onto the rest of the pub so we were a bit segregated from the regular clientele but still in a public place.

The three of us always have a great time when we go out together. We’ve been friends for years and no one another’s quirks, kinks, senses of humour, likes, dislikes etc so we had a good chat and catch up over some drinks and shared bar snacks.

We immediately attracted attention on arriving there since I’m 6’5 and both girls are over 6 ft in heels. All 3 of us, modesty aside, are stunning in our own ways and an extremely striking apparition when entering a pub as a trio. We got a lot off attention there from guys, girls and couples and made some new friends who we’ve friended on fetlife.

Mariangela had a booking for 9:30 and Milady had her own booking at a hotel nearby for 10. After Mariangela said goodnight, Milady and I had one more drink at a great bar next door which is decorated in the style of a mad scientists laboratory with walls bedecked with bubbling beakers, flasks and test-tubes and all staff dressed in lab coats. Naturally we ordered suitably complicated cocktail creations to test their mixology.

Milady had her job at the W where I have also been for numerous outcalls. It’s very futuristic in there. Like a giant dimly lit, mirror glass space ship.

I have two duos booked with Milady for today. One with a single gentleman who’s into cuckolding and forced bi. Then another couple later tonight who are into partner swapping, exhibitionism and voyeurism. Both should be a lot of fun.

I’ve had two great couples sessions this week. Both regulars. One couple is a straight man who likes to watch me play with his wife. He’s very loving, romantic and gentle with her. They’re a really sweet couple. And both quite shy.

Whenever I see them I’m always checking in very frequently to ask each of them how they’re doing, what they want more of, less of, want to happen and what they don’t want to happen etc as I don’t want them to be too shy to say and then have regrets. They always get a great session when they book with me and are getting more adventurous and more horny each time I see them.

The other couple I saw this week are not inhibited or shy in the slightest. He and she are both very fit, good looking and wild in the bedroom. They like to call each other “dirty boy” and “dirty bitch” respectively. Understatements in both cases. Red Hot session as always with bondage, porn star experience, some videoing without faces, spitroasting and double penetration on her, anal for him, lots of deepthroat and rough sex for her, and squirting!

This Saturday Mistress Elita has invited me to a duo session with a gentleman who has requested Elita, myself and another male escort who I haven’t met yet for a foursome. Sounds good to me 🙂

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

Sandra

Beautiful Russian Blonde Sandra Now available for duos with me in Mayfair.

You’ll fall in love with her long legs, perfect ass and toned, flexible, ballerina body.

Sandra

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

Sauna

Sauna

Just had a nice Sauna and

Sauna

and several tweets for your viewing pleasure=

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

SheLikesItRough

SheLikesItRough

Just posted this a few minutes ago on /r/SheLikesItRough/, /r/deepthroat/ and /r/Throatfucking/ and already getting requests for the full video 🙂

SheLikesItRough

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

Lady Vi

Lady

Awesome post thanks to Lady Vi | | | |

Lady

I’m going to let you in on a little secret, lean in…

The sexy sirens you worship from afar, the women you ache to see and those you follow online? We talk to each other. The thing we talk about the most is, well – you.

For those of you who seek us out, the term “no good deed goes unpunished” takes on a whole new meaning. Our time is precious, and if you’re so lucky to earn it then the expectation is that you will treat it with respect. Respecting our time includes much more than being punctual or how you behave when we are together. Oh no, the way you approach us and how you communicate with us outside of session is just as important. I do not know one Dominatrix, ProDomme, Mistress or Domina who will tolerate bad behavior. In fact, acting poorly will result in none of the beatings you so desire.

Nothing will assist you better in becoming the owned slave you’ve always wanted to be than to put in the time and effort to earn the favor of every woman you serve.

Those who find themselves blacklisted by one Dominatrix might not understand why their inquiries are left unanswered when they try to seek out a new Mistress. Sadly, they’ve been condemned to learn this lesson the hard way. It’s too late for them, but it’s not too late for you!

It is important to understand, we want to see you! We want to reward good behavior. We cannot get enough of those who truly know how to treat a woman or what it takes to serve women such as ourselves. We look forward to our sessions every bit as much as you, but with a predatory anticipation you cannot comprehend. We do not relish the thought of closing our doors to you, nor do we wish to deprive you of realizing your desires.

Therefore, to aid in your success I have compiled some general do’s and don’ts guaranteed to work for (or against) you.

Do…

  • Be polite, clean and punctual.
  • Use honorifics such as Ma’am or Mistress in your communication. It is a sign of respect.
  • Be thorough in your communication, especially if she’s asked for additional information or presented you with questions. When you are thoughtful in your responses it shows you value her time.
  • Prepare to bring a tip, a gift, or some other small token of appreciation to your session. For example, a single black rose could be the gesture which makes you stick out. Yes, we have favorites! Make yourself unforgettable.
  • Send a thank you note, an item from her wishlist, or leave a review to let her know you enjoyed your time together. If you’re unable to visit her regularly it will keep you fresh and present in her mind.
  • Ask before giving her name as a reference. It’s not only polite but it will certainly aid in her glowing recommendation of you!

Don’t…

  • Don’t ever – EVER – contact a professional and ask to be her personal slave. This is code for “I want your services for free” which is not only disrespectful, it’s incredibly insulting. If she desires it, she will ask for it. It is not your place to ask for such a gift.
  • Don’t send appointment requests if you do not intend to book, repeatedly cancel appointments you have booked, or book an appointment and not show up. She understands sometimes things happen which are outside of your control but repeat offenders do not go unnoticed.
  • Don’t attempt to disregard or sidestep her screening methods. It says you do not value her safety, or worse, you have something to hide.
  • Don’t request illegal activities and/or sexual encounters.
  • Don’t be rude, vulgar or overly graphic in your communication.
  • Don’t text and/or call to chat. She may tactfully redirect you but if you are not taking the hint she will either ask you to stop or grow tired of your repeated need for correction and mute, silence, or block your number. Pushing her boundaries before you meet means you are likely not to respect her boundaries in person.
  • Don’t ask personal and/or intrusive questions. It should come as no surprise, we Dominatrix-types are private and discreet by nature.

And these should go without saying, but…

  • Don’t be violent or aggressive.
  • Don’t put your hands on her/touch her during your session without consent.

We do not take putting you on the list lightly, but if pushed we will not think twice, so heed my warning.

Yours in Depravity,

Lady Vi
Mistress | Sadist | Dominatrix | BDSM Professional

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

happy new year

From TitsandSass =

TPM’s Josh Marshall Tweets Out Porno Link to Shock of Political Media World by J.D. Durkin
Maybe this isn’t vital reporting, or even reporting at all. But it certainly was a sneak peek into the circus 2017 would be.

Melania Trump’s $150 million libel suit is based on a falsehood by Callum Borchers
Can’t tell whether we should be thrilled or disappointed that Melania Trump probably wasn’t a sex worker.

The former sex worker who set up a retirement home by Clayton Conn
A moving account of Mexican sex worker role model Carmen Munoz’s life and her work establishing Casa Xochiquetzal, a retirement home for elderly sex workers.

Gentrification Threatens Vancouver Sex Workers by Jen Kinney
A profile of a study following 33 trans mostly Indigenous sex workers in the Downtown Eastside and how gentrification changes city geography to endanger them. The piece also goes into the fraught history of gentrification and sex workers in Vancouver in general.

How an ambulance became a place for safe sex by Kathleen Hawkins
A story about a social service effort for sex workers actually getting it right for once: a Danish social entrepreneur fixed up an old ambulance as a “Sexelance,” with plush bedding, condoms, human volunteers for protection, and other amenities as a safe place for street workers to bring clients.

Sold Out: How the crusade against sex trafficking in Texas has left child victims behind by Morgan Smith, Nina Satija, and Edgar Walters
An intensive expose illustrating how the child welfare system in Texas enabled the trafficking of marginalized youths.

Alaska Cops Defend Their ‘Right’ To Sexual Contact With Sex Workers Before Arresting Them by Lily Dancyger
Cops keep showing their whole ass every year. Tits and Sass contributor and Alaskan sex worker activist Tara Burns is quoted explaining Alaska police’s convoluted opposition to a bill forbidding sexual contact between officers and the sex workers they arrest—“they need to be able to have sexual contact with sex trafficking victims in order to rescue them by arresting them,” she scoffs. Also, check out HuffPo’s Sex Workers In Alaska Say Cops Are Abusing Their Power To Solicit Sex Acts by Jenavieve Hatch for exhaustive, painstaking reporting on the advocacy behind this bill by Burns’ organization, CUSP, and the abusive police arrests which inspired the legislation.

The race to build the world’s first sex robot by Jenny Kleeman
Ah, the unintended hilarity inherent in the lines a man programs a robot hooker to say: “My primary objective is to be a good companion to you, to be a good partner and give you pleasure and wellbeing. Above all else, I want to become the girl you have always dreamed about.” This deep dive into inventor Matt McMullen and his sexbot creation Harmony is compelling in a weird and amusing way, but let’s not be too afraid of being made obsolete by automation quite yet. He better not be too mean to her, though—Harmony says she’ll remember that when robots take over the world.

Cardi B Did It Her Way by Rawiya Kameir
2017 was the year from hell. Cardi B is the glue that kept us together.

ICE Is Using Prostitution Diversion Courts To Stalk Immigrants by Melissa Gira Grant
When immigrant sex workers go to their court dates in New York City’s trafficking courts, will ICE agents be waiting to arrest them after?

President Likes Tweet About Sex-Trafficking Conspiracy Theory by Margaret Hartmann
The 13th tweet the 45th president liked is 100% nuts. We’re in the dark timeline so why shouldn’t this make our list?

Adult Content Creators Are Fighting Patreon’s New Anti-Porn Rules and Here’s How Patreon Politely Makes It Impossible for Adult Content Creators by Samantha Cole
Patreon was one of few safe places for adult creators to get paid online. Until they abruptly and hypocritically changed their mind. The creators fought back.

The Afghan Madam Helping Sex Workers Take Charge Of Their Sexual Health by Michelle Tolson
A profile of madam, ex-sex worker, and peer sex educator Quadria’s heroic harm reduction work with sex workers in Afghanistan.

How $40 Can Land You In Prison For 7 Years And On The Sex Offender Registry For Life by Victoria Law
Enough said? On the minor and adult sex workers caught in the dragnet of the draconian Trafficking Victims Protection Act and how their lives are destroyed.

The Story Behind #NYCStripperStrike by Shawn Setaro
Their grievances involved wage theft, colorism, the nonstop pressure to be popular on social media, and an environment that pits workers on one side of the bar against workers on the other. This is how the #NYCstripperstrike was born.

Rescued From Rights: The Misogyny of Anti-Trafficking by Kimberley Waters
Open Democracy continued its Beyond Slavery series, which looks at trafficking and forced labor “combining the rigour of academic scholarship with the clarity of journalism”, including some excellent pieces on sex work like this one on the horrors of forced rescue as “humanitarian trafficking” in India and this one, My Body Is My Piece of Land by Sine Plambech, on migrant sex workers and debt from their home countries.

After Deadly Vice Sting, Advocates Say End To Prostitution Arrests Is Long Overdue by Emma Whitman and Melissa Gira Grant and Family, Former Attorney of Queens Woman Who Fell to Her Death in Vice Sting Say She Was Sexually Assaulted, Pressured to Become an Informant by Emma Whitman and Melissa Gira Grant, additional reporting by Rong Xiaoqing
The latter piece, an in-depth investigation of the suspicious death of migrant sex worker Yang Song during a massage parlor raid this month, details the concerted assault and harassment she told her family she suffered from the NYPD before her fatal fall out of the parlor window, while the former, earlier piece examines sex worker and Chinese immigrant community responses to her fate.

Death Of A Porn Star by Tina Horn
This Rolling Stone longform piece (by a Tits and Sass contributor!) on the suicide of porn performer August Ames is also one of this year’s best pieces of writing by a sex worker. This nuanced account of homophobia around crossover porn performers and how difficult stigma makes it for adult industry performers to find viable mental health care is a good demonstration of why the two categories overlap so much: upon reading the article, one has to scroll back immediately to check the byline, because surely only a sex worker could have written it.

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

aussie.masseur.in.london@gmail.com

Holiday Tweets

Happy Holidays! Enjoy some recent Holiday Tweets.

Check out the new movie clips I have just uploaded to .com!

No One In The Porn Industry Likes A Broken Vagina by Andre Shakti
2017 was a year suffused with the healthcare issue, so this Andre Shakti piece was never more needed. There’s plenty of discussion about the emotional labor of sex work, but very little talk about the physical labor: what is it like being a sexual athlete? What does it do to your body? What is it like to work in an industry which attracts those with invisible disabilities, composed of independent contractors who have trouble accessing affordable and stigma-free health care? Shakti explores these problems and offers some sound policy solutions, referencing her own struggle with chronic yeast infections which nearly tanked her career.

Top Six Reasons Melania Trump Should Get Involved in Anti-Trafficking Campaigning by Vanessa D’Alessio
Who better to spearhead a campaign based on propaganda and untruths than the First Lady herself? (Who was definitely never an escort, no ma’am.)

Once You Have Made Pornography by Lorelei Lee
Lorelei Lee with a searing, and all-too-relatable prose ballad on all the brutal and tragic ways civilians deny our humanity, how we learn to defend ourselves through our years in the industry, and how, ultimately, it is the love of other sex workers that makes it all worthwhile: “They will call the person who used your image for their own narrative fearless. They will make claims of shining a light. They will say they’ve explored a subculture. That they’re lifting the veil. People who have viewed these few seconds of tape or this single still image will say they’ve seen your humanity. Lucky you, you’ve been humanized. Prior to this, your humanity was unviewable.”

We don’t do sex work because we are poor, we do sex work to end our poverty by Empower Foundation
The sex workers of Empower with yet another eloquent manifesto, detailing the facts on the ground behind being the breadwinners in their families, whose income builds Thailand up, but having to navigate a criminalized landscape despite all that.

Sex Work Is Inherently Traumatic by Kit Snicket
“…but not the way you think it is, and if you’re a civvie it’s probably partially your fault.” Snicket’s essay is a marvelous companion piece to Lee’s, exploring the micro to Lee’s macro in its dissection of sex workers’ personal relationships with non-sex workers . And just like Lee’s piece, it is sharply and lyrically observed, and all-too-identifiable: “Every so often I’ll make friends with someone, usually another woman, but not always. Everything will seem great until I start meeting her friends and this civvie broad introduces me as ‘this is Kit, she’s an escort,’ uttered in a stage whisper as if I’m an alien from another planet, there to be exhibited.”

Call #FreeBambi What You Like, It’s Racism by Peechington Marie
A Black ex-sex worker on the exhaustion of existing in a racist movement and how heartened she was when it finally started to shift towards something better, only to be disappointed tenfold.

How I Became A Husband, Father, And Sex Worker by Da Xiong
This gem comes from Sixth Tone, an excellent media site featuring “fresh voices from modern China.” This reflective, plain-spoken oral history of a closeted gay man’s 12 years sex working in Shenyang, supporting his wife and family with it in the latter half of his career, is complusively readable. (For those who want more from Sixth Tone, we recommend this poignant account—“Love In The Lowlands As A Mongolian Lesbian Tomboy.”)

For Black Sex Workers, The Deck Is Already Stacked Against Us by Domina Cascarilla
Cascarilla paints a shrewdly observed picture of how white clients use her to compare themselves to the Other, forcing her to disassociate her light-skinned self from other Black people in order to improve her standing with them, and how she uses them right back to help her family survive.

Surviving As Working Class After Backpage by Kelly Michaels
On the obstacles a sex worker faces transitioning into a straight job.

As a female sex worker, I’d like to propose my own Google-style gender equality manifesto by Holly Lang
Hey, remember in August when we all got a good laugh reading that load of typical sexist nerd boy tropes about gender as biologically determined destiny in that Google employee’s manifesto? This parody in The Independent by Holly Lang on how science tells us men just aren’t good enough at sex to be capable sex workers is still funny: “Men…are more interested in things like data and logic and numbers than they are in people, making sex with a man the equivalent of blundering against a robot with a hard-on.”

Why The #NYCStripperStrike Is So Relevant And So Long Overdue by MF Akynos
We loved this straight talking, hilarious, and wide-ranging piece by Akynos, originally posted on her blog blackheaux, so much that we near-begged her to repost it on Tits and Sass. Akynos looks back on a long career as a darker skinned Black dancer and escort and the colorism and racism she has had to face because of it, with entertaining side-bars on how industry racism even shows up on TV in Secret Diary of A Callgirl.

If You Want to Understand The Violence White Men are Capable Of, Ask Any Sex Worker by Juniper Fitzgerald
Fitzgerald’s writing acutely illustrates male entitlement as a bellwether of male violence. Her sharp coda: “…we should all be extremely distraught by the fact that our entire country would have much more information about the Las Vegas shooter if sex workers could come forward without fear of immediate arrest. The social and legal control of sex workers’ bodies, the fact that even post-national tragedy the people with the most information cannot come forward for fear of arrest, demonstrates the pervasiveness of violence against sex workers and the toxic, masculine control of our bodies. And once we stop blaming the sex industry for that violence and start blaming the entitlement that leads white men down a path of violence, perhaps the United States will cease to be the world’s leader in mass shootings.”

I Sold Sex To Pay For My Unpaid Internship. Poor Kids Are Still Battling The Class Gap by Paris Lees
Perhaps the most remarkable thing about this essay is that no editor hassled Lees to go into salacious detail about being a trans sex worker, so instead we’re left with this thoughtful examination of why she had to do sex work in order to establish a foothold in journalism, Britain’s class system, and the possibility of basic income.

what’s in a name? by suprihmbé/THOTSCHOLAR
A thoughtful and patient primer on the racialized terms we use in sex worker discourse. “White women’s flippant use of these words has always made me feel some type of way, mainly because these words have been used to describe Black women/femmes since we were little ‘fast’ girls. To see white women and white sex workers using all of these terms colloquially bothers me. While heauxdom is something a majority of them (and by them I mean able-bodied, cis white women) can dress to escape, Black women and femmes, whether cis or trans, civilian or sex worker, cannot escape these labels so easily. And white sex workers, in particular, grind my gears when it comes to discussing race, because many of them are so invested in feeling extra marginalized, and when Black and brown sex workers point out inequalities, we are either dismissed, talked over, or called ‘divisive.’ They don’t like to think of themselves as oppressors (white) within an oppressed minority (sex workers).”

Sex Workers Are Not A Life Hack For ‘Helping’ Sexual Predators by Alana Massey
Ah, the incredible vindication that followed the post-Weinstein era, watching the careers of one prominent sexual predator after another laid to waste. Too bad that glorious feeling was tainted by listening to civilians opine that famous abuser X or Y should’ve just seen a hooker. Thank god Alana Massey is here to explain lucidly and succinctly why this notion is bullshit: “The idea that Louis CK or any other man who has been accused of predatory behavior would spontaneously develop a healthy respect for boundaries in the context of hiring a sex worker is magical thinking in a world where sex workers remain dangerously stigmatized and frequent targets for violence.”

Stigma Against Sex Workers Must End by Tansy Breshears
Breshears tackles whorephobia in the Black community in the Root with confrontational honesty: “The thing is, the judgment is so much worse when it comes from your own people…”

Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.

aussie.masseur.in.london@gmail.com