Welcome to Elust 178
September's Elust 178 cover image is courtesy of Anais Leigh. Sexy AF and the scenery reminds me of where I grew up. Also, that's a neat way to partially obscure the face as well, lining up the shot so the sun is setting directly over her head and using the lens flare instead of a blur filter. Looks like she's reaching enlightenment or going super saiyan mode with all that lens flare radiating from her brow. As always, Elust has all the best and sexiest of the interwebs. So, read on and if you find a blog you love, I recommend checking whether it has an RSS feed and adding it to a feed reader so you can follow all your favourites on RSS instead of relying on giant, megalomaniacal monopolies like Twitter.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts
William Wallace on how his desire to watch porn is changing.
Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening
A holistic approach to intimacy that transcends mere physical pleasure, engaging body, mind, and spirit in a profound union.
The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide
There is more to wanking than just beating it like it owes you money.
Betty's Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try
I'm not sure about the kissgasms or nipplegasms but I'm more than happy to be proven wrong.
Erotic Non Fiction
Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)
Manners, darling.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner
Yeah, breathe in, breathe out (uh) If ya iced up, pull ya sleeves out Push a big truck, pull ya keys out Girls go wild and pull ya D's out.
Little Red Spanking, The Lover’s Spat: A Paddle Story
Two new paddles to be tested. One cherry and the other raintree. And one bottom to test them on.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything
The machines can do the work, so that people have time to write erotica.
Erotic Fiction
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3
Supankingu.
Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow
Butchcock Spitfetish would make a good roller derby name.
Jasmine Gold, A Nun's Humiliation
The devil made me do it.
Product Reviews
Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn't Know Existed (2024)
Sleek prostate massagers, fun stroker sleeves, anal beads, and vibrating cock rings.
Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo's Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker
Three devices that can connect together into one ultra mega device that you control via a mobile app.
Sex Work
Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You
Sacre bleu!
Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices
The predicament bondage poses look like great fun. I have a regular who badly needs to get restrained so he has to either hang by his bound wrists or stand on tiptoes and see if he can cum from the magic wand within the time limits set by his own endurance. Moving house next year. A good overhead suspension point is absolutely a priority.
Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory
Go for the image of Saul Goodman in a gold mankini. Stay for the wealth of information.
Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker
Interesting to read how a very new domme is deciding what rates to advertise. Femina makes some good points. I would add that the biggest factor of all in determining how high a rate one can advertise and still see enough clients to make the money we want to make is marketing. Self promotion. Advertising.
The most important factor in setting rates is web presence. You need to be reaching enough people and be appealing enough that the percentage of those people seeing your ad who book an appointment, show up and pay at a given rate add up to your financial target.
Appearance, experience, services, reputation etc are all important but if only ten people a day see you on the internet, you're not going to make much money as a sex worker no matter how far ahead of the competition you are in every other way.
If your website is on page one for a popular search term like "caning mistress London" and your site is getting thousands of visitors per day you can advertise a much higher rate than someone who's web presence is only seen by a few dozen people per day.
Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz
Sandra gets spitroasted by Mr Z and myself.
Nuit d'Or, Self-care For Dominants
This is the inaugural offering in an exciting series of comprehensive courses and workshops specifically designed to empower and educate BDSM and kink aficionados.
Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave
I came, I saw, I came.
Books and Movies
History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon
90s hair metal and bourgeois moral panic. I won't watch the movie but it was a great review. However, if it was remade according to Peter's proposed rewriting, I'd watch it.
Poetry
Simone Francis, Watch Me
Watch me whip. Watch me nae nae.
