The Reddit AMA (Ask Me Anything interview) went well. Lots of response, about 20,000 clicks on my website in one day, an American news site called Nextshark published an article about my interview and also a Chinese site called Teepr. Now Metro and Newstatesman want to interview me too 🙂
Here's a copy of the AMA-
submitted 4 days ago by AussieMaleEscort
See my blog for proof.
If you do a google search for "male escort" my website is the first result for an independent.
I’m from Australia and usually based in London.
I tour a lot internationally. I’ve been to Thailand, Shanghai, Dubai, Australia and USA in the last few months. If you’d like to read about my adventures, erotic and otherwise, please subscribe to My Blog.
I've been doing this for 7 years.
The majority of my clients are single men but I also see couples, do duos with female escorts and double dominatiion, forced bi, cuckolding etc with pro dommes.
The men I see are sometimes gay but more commonly bi or bi curious. A lot of them have wives and girlfriends.
I don’t find my job demeaning or feel exploited in any way. I did feel exploited working in customer service for big corporations before because I knew those corporations were profiting far more from having me there than I was from being there, didn’t give a shit about me and treated me like a battery chicken. Now I’m self employed, completely free to choose my hours, what services I offer and don’t offer and who I see and don’t see.
I enjoy what I do, make lots of money and have a lot of free time and opportunities to travel and have new experiences.
[–]akashsphs 24 points 4 days ago
to where do you escort them?
[–]Foozmuck 5 points 4 days ago
To a mental place of sexual pleasure.
"escort" is a euphemism for prostitute. I sometimes go out to dinner with clients, to shows, casinos, even on their private yachts, private jets, to resorts etc but usually they just come to my apartment or I go tho their house or hotel.
[–]StinkinBadges 5 points 4 days ago
No way! I never knew that.
[–]timoseewho 4 points 4 days ago
so this explains all those models on Instagram with their yachts, jets, resorts..
[–] *comment deleted* someone asked if I was afraid of being arrested.
Not at all. Prostitution is legal where I am. I'm in London. Most reddit users are in USA which is one of the few developed countries in the world where prostitution is illegal. This is very unfortunate since it makes it difficult for sex workers there to seek the help of law enforcement when they are the victims of real crimes like rape, robbery, assault etc. It also makes it more difficult to advertise as an independent and to operate from ones own premises so it puts more money and control into the hands of pimps, brothels etc
[–]asshole1138 17 points 4 days ago
If I was a billionaire, I'd hire you to escort my puppy to the dog park, just because I could. Do you get many gigs like this?
lol. Sounds great. Actually I have a female escort friend who sometimes gets me to walk her dog when she's busy. It's great, all the fun of hanging out with a dog (and lots of attention for both of us from women in the park) without the responsibility of actually owning a dog. And no. Almost all of my gigs involve some kind of sexual contact. Some dinner dates and dates to go out with people to shows, casinos, sightseeing etc but there's almost always something sexual after that. Not everyone wants full sex. I see a lot of fetish clients who want all sorts of things that don't involve penetration. But they almost all want to have an orgasm in the end.
[–]siamimran 9 points 4 days ago
"what kind of sexual stuff did you have to do?"
mainly naked oil massage, oral and sex, I'm versatile which means I have sex as a top or a bottom. I also do duos (2 escorts with 1 client), double domination, cuckolding, forced bi etc with pro dommes and I cater to all kinds of fetishes. And I make videos which you can see via my blog.
[–]Styphathal 3 points 4 days ago
Sounds kinda ...gay......
[–]MisterLyle 12 points 4 days ago
[–]johnny_mclovin 5 points 4 days ago
What is the craziest request that someone has made? And how do I get into the business lol.
I used to have a regular who was into ballbusting. He'd arrive and with very little chit chat etc take of his jeans but leave his underwear and the rest of his clothes on and stand with his feet shoulder width apart and his hands behind his back and I'd stand in front of him fully dressed with my shoes on and kick him repeatedly in the balls. I've been doing martial arts since I was a kid. Taekwondo for 10 years. And I lived in thailand for a few years and trained full time at a thai boxing gym and fought professionally. I can kick hard. Anyway, he could take it. When he was ready, he'd lie on the floor and I'd put my feet on top of his crotch and he'd jerk off inside his underpants. We recorded it once and I have a video clip of the kicking on my adultwork, linked to my blog if you're curious.
[–]Taffy212 15 points 4 days ago
The absolute fuck?????
[–]GriffsWorkComputer 6 points 4 days ago
isn't that like...dangerous?
[–]champsammy13 2 points 3 days ago
Let's get dangerous! * *DARKWING DUCK!!!**
[–]Lunatic335 1 point 3 days ago
how much abuse can human testicles take??? like what happens if they just...pop...??
[–]LethalLobster8 4 points 4 days ago
What has been your most favoured moment in the job? Have to ask
Hard to choose just one.. I love it when a client books me and a female escort or multiple female escorts. If you look back through my blog, I've described these sessions in some detail 😉 The girl in the video in my reddit ama proof post on my blog is a professional submissive and our duo sessions and video sessions are always very intense. Recently a Dutch gentleman booked her and I for a double penetration session and it turned out he was the same height as me, 6'5" (195cm) and his cock was almost the exact same size, 9" (22cm), and shape as mine. We took turns doing forced deepthroat on her, did DP, double vaginal, even double anal, he was very strong and athletic and so am I so she got a pounding like no other and was screaming with multiple orgasms the whole hour. She's genuinely sub and so being dominated and fucked senseless by two big strong men is her idea of heaven, it's one of my favourite things too and the guy who booked us is a "specialist" he's been seeing escorts all over the world his whole adult life acting out his MMF, DP etc fantasy and said we were in a different league to any of the others. That session would have to be at least one of the best. There have been some very special moments for me in this job!
[–]LethalLobster8 3 points 4 days ago
[–]ziggykareem 4 points 4 days ago
do you ever finish before your clients? and if so, whats protocol there?
Only when they asked to see me cum. Usually if they say they want to see me cum but then don't give me enough/any warning and they cum before I do, they lose interest in whether I cum or not at that exact instant. If I ask "do you still want me to cum?" They always say no, or only if you want to.
[–]snowflake47 5 points 4 days ago
Interesting. So when your clients say "no" to you cumming, do you still cum later or just deal with the blue balls? Or do you not get blue balls?
It's not an issue at all. I get laid quite a lot 😉
[–]AWatson10 4 points 4 days ago
Do you offer services while working in the club? If so, what tip do you expect compared to your hourly rate?
Club? No. I'm independent. I work from my own apartment and I visit hotels and houses. I don't expect tips and in most countries it's very rare for anyone to tip an escort. In America it's more common so I'm always happy touring in USA and seeing American clients when they're visiting London.
[–]TomCruise_AMA 7 points 4 days ago
What makes you #1?
How would one procure your services? For you know, research purposes.
If you do a google search for "male escort" my website is the first result for an independent. I got my search ranking by the usual SEO stuff. Mainly from regularly updating my blog with quality content. Number 1 is very subjective in any other sense but I get a lot of comments along the lines of "you're very relaxing/calming to be around/I was nervous but felt at ease straight away when I met you" etc I'm very professional, I don't use drugs. These set my far apart from the majority of male escorts. I'm always on time for bookings. Again, almost unheard off amongst my peers. I make it very easy and straightforward to make an appointment with me. I go to the gym every day and make a lot of effort with my appearance. I keep a spotlessly clean and very discreet and provate incall location. I've studied Thai, Swedish and tantric massage. I have a 9 inch cock and I can get hard instantly every time, always, guaranteed and stay that way for the duration. Then I can cum on cue. Contact me via my website! I've signed NDAs before for celebrity clients by the way. If a certain A lister who wasn't ready to come out wanted to see me, I am, above all, discreet.
[–]TomCruise_AMA 3 points 4 days ago
I was joking, but damn do you have a name for yourself. Congrats on your success 🙂
[–]CrodudeClassic 1 point 4 days ago
I've been trying to expand my skills in the "massage" department, and you mentioned having studied "Thai, Swedish and tantric massages."
So my question, which of these 3 types do you find most practical (if any)? Also, would you recommend any particular books/websites to further one's knowledge in this department?
[–]rosesandchocolates 3 points 4 days ago
What are some of the techniques that you use to help pleasure your female clients ?
My clients, whether they're male or female, are all different and I try to tailor each session according to the needs of the individual. If someone doesn't have any specific requests, I usually start with the usual polite gestures like offering to hang up their coat, offering a drink, asking if they want to shower, making polite, friendly, fun smalltalk etc. I'm told I'm very good at making people feel relaxed and at ease. When the moment is right, I ask them to undress and show them where to put their clothes, ask if they have any aches, pains, injuries etc and get them to lie down on their front then give them relaxing sexy, nude oil massage. I know a lot of "techniques" but more importantly, get your partner in the mood first, lots of foreplay, be very observant of their reactions and ask the right questions, to find out what they like. I've had women come to see me specifically because they've never had an orgasm with a man and I've found the reason was, no man ever bothered to figure out what made her cum! Also, after foreplay and eventual penetration when she's absolutely begging for it, some women do need more stimulation than others to get from there to orgasm, that's when the hitachi magic wand on the clit while having sex is the ultimate. If the magic wand is too intense, use a bullet vibrator first, or instead.
[–]Perzeval 3 points 4 days ago
Has anyone ever thought they were bi then once they started freaked out? How do you deal with people like this?
Very few. If someone is bi curious it's usually a case of they've always been that way or for a very long time. If seeing me is the first time they've acted on their fantasy, it's been a long time coming. They've thought about it a lot. They've watched a lot of gay porn. I've had guys come to the door and then say they left their wallet in the car/need to go to the bank etc. Then leave and not come back. All escorts get those. It's a variety of timewaster. They have no intention of paying. They just book the appointment so they can see what an escort looks like planning to run away regardless. I don't try to insist they pay. I just save their number so I know to ignore them next time.
[–]Perzeval 3 points 4 days ago
Just to see the escorts that seems kinda strange, if they really wanted an attractive guy couldn't they just watch porn.
I agree. But it does happen. The more common variety of timewaster doesn't even bother coming for a look. They pretend to be a genuine client booking an appointment, then don't show up, and don't bother to cancel. These ones usually ask multiple explicit questions, want to go into detail about whatever scenario etc ie they're using escorts for a free sex chat service while wanking because they're too sad and lonely to watch porn and too cheap to pay. All escorts get these. After a while it's obvious which ones are just wanking and each escort has their own procedures to minimise the amount of time we waste on these.
[–]TrygveM 3 points 4 days ago
Could you tell about the first time you got paid for sex?
Sure. Someone asked me this here on reddit once before. Pasting my reply- That was about 10 years ago but I remember it well. My ex was escorting to pay her way through university and I knew I had the right skills and physical attributes to do it well ie 9 inches and I can get hard, stay hard for at least an hour and fuck hard without cumming, then cum on cue when a client wants me to. I prefer women but I’m bi enough that I can have sex with men when they’re paying me. I already knew how to douche and knew I could take a cock in my ass thanks to fun with ladyboys in Thailand and I’d been with a guy for fun once in Japan and once in Australia. My first job was with a middle aged, married, bi curious guy. It was his first time with a male escort. I didn’t tell him he was my first client. He’d been fantasising about sex with a man for years, watching gay porn etc before finally working up the courage to see a male escort. I could tell he was over-excited and would cum very quickly so I gave him a naked oil massage for about 30 minutes, got him to roll over on his back. played with his dick while licking his balls and kneeling with my cock within reach. He started sucking me, I did the same, after a while he wanted to be fucked so I put on a condom, put on plenty of lube, tried to ease it in, he was too tight and tense, more lube, still couldn’t, put a condom on my finger, more lube, after fingering him, tried my cock again, he managed to take a few inches and with those few inches moving in and out and his cock in my hand he came. He took a shower, got dressed and the hour was up. I escorted for a few years in London, went back to Australia, did an office job for a year to qualify for a mortgage (needed proof of a regular income for a year) then used my escorting money for a deposit, got the mortgage, bought a house, lived in it for a year and kept doing the office job to qualify for first home owners grant, used a letting agent to put a tenant in there renting it and their rent paying the minimum loan repayments, moved back to London, went back to escorting and been doing this since and sending money back to pay the mortgage. It’s nearly paid. I’ll escort for a few more years then start a tourism business back in Aus. I’ve had all kinds of fetish clients, couples, women, duos, forced bi, cuckolding, domination sessions etc with dominatrixes and their clients, toured internationally a lot and had clients pay my airfares, hotel and daily rate to visit them, I’ve been to most 5 star hotels in London and been taken to nice restaurants, I’ve had 18 year olds and 90 year olds, given cuddles and affection to some and judicial caning sessions in dungeons to others, I’ve had disabled clients including several in wheelchairs, I’ve been with multi billionaires on private jets and private yachts but I’ve also fucked my share of guys who’ve clearly been saving the money for months and it’s a huge expense for them. For the most part though escorting has just felt like an ordinary job. That’s the part of escorting that never gets portrayed in the media. They like to show it as glamorous and exciting or as some hellish exploitation. The reality is that if you were a fly on the wall watching the daily grind of most escorts it would all look very mundane and ordinary. We just work and make money like everyone else but our work involves fucking. There are memorable moments and experiences like I said above but most of the time it’s a lot like that first client- I just give some inexperienced bi or bi curious guy a massage, some oral, sex if he wants. I felt more exploited when I had the office job. It was for a big corporation where the upper management, directors, CEO etc were making big bucks from the hard work of people like me and I was treated like a battery chicken there. They monitored everything down to the number and duration of bathroom breaks. I’ll never do a job like that again. As an escort I’ve met lots of interesting people, had some experiences, traveled a lot and made lots of money. Best of all- all my work as an escort has translated directly into cash in my hand. Nobody else has profited from my work
[–]TrygveM 2 points 4 days ago
Thank you for the detailed reply!
You're welcome 🙂 Subscribe to my blog and follow me on twitter if you like
[–]jabeddu 3 points 4 days ago
The weirdest thing / fetish someone has ever requested you?
someone already asked me this and I mentioned my ball busting regular. I don't find people's fetishes weird but that was more extreme than most. I used to see a tickling fetishest where I had to squirm and giggle and pretend to be ticklish while he tickled me (actually not ticklish at all), I've seen an adult baby, had a wrestling session with a guy who uses a wheelchair so I had to help him out of the chair, onto the floor and then "wrestle" with him, I see a regular who's always tied to the bed and blindfolded by his TS domme when I arrive. Other male escorts see him before and after me. He just lies there restrained and unable to move all evening being fucked by one male escort after another. Trampling, watersports, hardsports etc fucked in a secret room behind a door disguised as a bookshelf like some bond Villain's lair, in a converted church house that still had the pews, pulpit, stained glass windows etc, on a houseboat in the canal in Amsterdam, private yachts, jets, some very fancy hotel suites. Celbrities, politicians, sportspeople and billionaires. I went to a strap-on and forced bi party where myself and a dozen or so female pro-dommes with strap-ons fucked all the male guests. Fond memories 😉
I'm 29. No, mostly men. Some couples and duos. Occasional single women.
[–]RaselLive 3 points 4 days ago
About how much do you make a month, just from escorting?
I'm not answering this one, sorry. But I see 1-2 clients every day and I rent my apartment in London out by the hour to other escorts also for a few hours per day. Plus rental income from an apartment I own in Australia and I sell videos on adultwork and clips4sale.
[–]LobsterLoveYo 2 points 4 days ago
I have two questions.
Is there anything you would refuse or have refused to do?
Are you always able to get turned on, even if you find the person or people to be really ugly? If so, how?
I don't kiss, rim, bareback, use drugs, do duos with male escorts or do anything as a sub. I've outright refused to see people for being pushy about any of the above, if they're drunk or high and a few times when they've arrived at my place dirty and smelly and refused to shower. None of the above happens often. Just a few times in the entire time I've been escorting.
I generally prefer clients who wouldn't conventionally be considered attractive. I guess because my priorities are different. I want my clients to be clean, polite, respectful of my boundaries as per your first question, and to enjoy themselves. I associate all of the above more with older, overweight, bald etc The worst clients are those who don't read or my ad or deliberately come to see me to try to pressure me into doing something they know I don't offer because they enjoy pushing someone's boundaries. These kind of guys are rare for me. I think they seek out the more inexperienced, newer escorts, especially those using drugs, because they are more likely to give in to pressure. And I associate these bad behaviors more with younger more attractive guys. I can always get turned on. I have a high sex drive and I'm turned on by people's responses more than their looks. I usually only see 1-2 clients a day but if I did already cum once or twice and I need to, I take 1/4 of a viagra 30 minutes before the client arrives.
[–]furiosva 3 points 4 days ago
May I ask why you don't do duos with other males? How different is it to doing one with a female?
I used to but never had a good experience. It's rare to find a male escort who isn't on drugs and can actually do the job properly eg, get hard if he's top or be clean if he's bottom. It's rare to even find a male escort who can show up on time, or at all, to an appointment. When male duo partners have let my clients down in the past, it makes me look unprofessional too.
[–]furiosva 1 point 4 days ago
Thanks for your answer! 🙂
[–]simplybiplob 2 points 4 days ago
Best experience with a client? and Worst experience with a client?
I described a booking elsewhere on this AMA as an example of one of the best. Are you sure you want the worst? Well.. Once a client came who wanted me to fist his ass. He brought his own gloves and some weird lube sold as an aid for helping farm animals give birth. Very icky texture to it. He took my fist but it became ap that he hadn't douched or had an enema. There was shit halfway up my arm, on my sheets etc. It was bad. I sent him to the bathroom to clean up and whatever he did in there resulted in my shower drain being blocked. He was in there up to his ankles in shitty water, still filthy and couldn't run the shower more without flooding my bathroom. I kept my calm but when he saw my face and I saw his reaction I guess he must have glimpsed the blood rage within. He cleaned himself as best he could with a towel (which went in the bin) paid and left post haste. I plungered, drain cleanered, triple bleached and rinsed every surface, showered very thoroughly and swore never to accept a fisting booking again. (you asked for it)
[–]BioCyberPunk 2 points 4 days ago
I'm really interested in sex from an academic perspective, ie sexology and sex education. While I'm sure this isn't something you do on a regular basis, I'm curious, how would you, with your unique experience and perspective, educate an adolescent about sex? In other words, how would your the birds & the bees talk play out?
I think adolescence would be a bit late for the birds and the bees no? 😉 But I get your point you mean what do I think teens should know in general beyond the basics of how babies are made which they'd hopefully be familiar with by then. I'd encourage teenagers to question everything they think they know about sex (and about anything and everything) whether the info came from porn, mainstream media, s, friends, teachers or from me, they should always consider the possibility that what they just learned is lies/ misinformation/ outdated/ inaccurate/ intentionally misleading in order to sell something/ exploit them/ whoever they learned it from may actually have no idea what they were talking about no matter how knowledgeable and authoritative they seemed. I'd encourage them to always look for a second opinion. Always fact check from a second completely different source from the original. And consider the possibility that that one is bollocks too. That was my greatest wow moment as a student in first year university when one of my professors explained the concept of Falsifiability, essentially, the strength of a scientific theory (and of all knowledge) comes from the inherent possibility that it can be proven false. As a rule of thumb if someone says this is how it is because I say so and what they said is not testable, or if you're somehow discouraged from fact checking, that person is probably talking out of their arse. If your adolescents take this approach to everything they learn about sex eg from porn, television, their mates etc, they'll have a lot more fun and avoid a lot of problems. If they take this approach to everything, they'll have a very bright future indeed.
[–]BioCyberPunk 1 point 4 days ago
Thanks for the insight, I've never even heard of falsifiability. Interesting
[–]jaherahmed 2 points 4 days ago
Are you allowed to give clients your personal number? where do you advertise?
I'm mainly independent. Clients who contact me via my website, twitter, directory ads, magazine ads etc usually contact me via the mobile number I list which is my work number. Some of my regulars have my personal number too. I get agency jobs from Anna's Angels. Those clients call the agency number and the agency arranges the booking in return for 30% commission. I don't give my direct number to those clients but if they want to see me again they can always contact the Agency.
[–]RangersCrusader 2 points 4 days ago
Have you had a vasectomy?
[–]RangersCrusader 2 points 4 days ago
so you don't get clients pregnant
My clients are nearly all men and I use condoms.
[–]Foozmuck 2 points 4 days ago
What was the best job you ever got to do?
I answered this somewhere else in this AMA. Here's a blog post re two hot MMF duo sessions with a gentleman client and an escort called Kate aka Naked Nympho. Copy and pasted from my blog (please subscribe if you'd like an email alert each time I add a new post)- Kate and her boyfriend love bi threesomes with her girlfriends and when we met last year it was her turn to enjoy two cocks. She took a pounding from every angle in all positions with nymphomaniac enthusiasm. My balls were slapping against her thighs. Her tits were a blur of motion from the pneumatic pounding I gave her. We went at it for well over the hour. By the time her boyfriend and I had shot our respective loads over her there were rows of dozens of suited salarymen lined up by the windows in the office building over the road, cheering and applauding the show they'd seen courtesy of our leaving the curtains wide open and the lights on for them.
Naturally when she called me the other night asking how soon I could be there for a repeat performance I was dressed, ready and out the door and into a cab on my way to her place within minutes.
We must have set some kind of record for how many orgasms she had last time and I was keen to break our own record this time so I took my hitachi magic wand with me. The world’s most powerful vibrator.
After a drink and a chat with Kate and her boyfriend we wasted no time getting naked and at the sight of her Kardashianesque curves in all their glory I was rock hard instantly and stayed that way for the duration. Kate had obviously missed my Aussie 9 inches saying it seemed even thicker than last time and soon she was ready to take it. And take it she did. With the combined power of the bigdownunder in her pussy and the magic wand on her clit, I think the entire population of Kensington and Chelsea must have heard her screams of pleasure as she rode wave after wave of endless orgasmic pleasure. Her boyfriend didn’t join in this time, happy to simply behold in wonderment the sheer energy and passion of what was taking place before his eyes. It took only moments for her to reach her first orgasm and she came every few minutes for over an hour before eventually begging for my cum. I never shot so hard or so much drenching her seemingly from head to toe.
[–]bluestreakxp 2 points 4 days ago
What are some code terms used in this industry? my friend said roses meant money, and there were meanings for russian and gfe and pse?
according to the internets the top 10 terms used in escort ads are-
A-Level / Greek = anal
BBBJ = barebackblowjob = oral without a condom
CIM = cum in mouth
DATY = dining at the Y = oral on a woman
DFK = deep French Kiss
GFE = girlfriend experience = implies kissing and oral without a condom
MSOG = many shots on goal = client can cum multiple times within one session
PSE = porn star experience = usually involves anal and ends with cum on face
Russian = a tit wank
Safe = sex with a condom
obviously most of these are for female escorts. I don't use any of these terms in my ads. There's no need for euphemisms like roses in UK. Completely legal here.
[–]unchangeablechan 2 points 4 days ago*
Do you enjoy you job? how much do you earn per client?
Love it. £150 for incalls and £200 for outcalls per hour ($220 and $300 USD). It varies a bit depending on which country I'm touring. eg I charge double those rates in Dubai.
[–]willyumv3 4 points 4 days ago
Have you seen what would be considered "ugly dudes" make it in your field or is it always attractive, muscular people?
looks are definitely a big factor but not the only factor in becoming successful as an escort. The most important is marketing. You need to figure out who you appeal to and then tailor your advertising accordingly. I spend about 500 GBP per month (700usd) on advertising to see 1-2 clients per day. I've seen very good looking escorts who spend almost nothing on advertising and make next to zero effort with their advertising then wonder why they failed to get enough clients to make it worth escorting rather than doing some other job. "ugly" would be more common in some niche field within escorting eg fetish, bdsm etc
[–]willyumv3 2 points 4 days ago
Thanks for the reply!
[–]NathanForJew 4 points 4 days ago
How accurate is Deuce Bigalow? And for that matter, Deuce Bigalow: European Gigolo?
I haven't had the misfortune but I'm guessing neither is intended as factual documentary..
[–]Chrisr130 1 point 4 days ago
how did you get into the business? And what do most clients want you to do?
[–]Gunslinger_11 1 point 4 days ago
What's the secret of being charismatic? How can I hold someone's interest?
I mean you're more than your outward appearance.
Oh side question.
What's your grooming routine? Do you use special hair products or face stuff?
I'm not sure I'm the best person to ask. I'm very unlike what most people would describe as charismatic but I'd say it's a myth that you have to be super extroverted, loud, gregarious etc to be charismatic. I'm certainly none of the above but I'm well liked in my personal life, I have lots of friends and a huge network of escorts I interact with professionally and socially and I'm adored and almost worshiped by a lot of my clients so I must be doing something right. I think what you're looking for, you can only get from practicing it in a way that feels natural and enjoyable to you. So take part inthings you love doing that have a social aspect and be yourself, learn from experience and observation what works. Please don't try to learn from books/ the internet/ conferences etc Those who profess to be able to teach this stuff often seem to be conmen and/or creepy sociopaths like those awful PUA people.
I go to the gym nearly every day, do weights at home most days, go to a salon regularly to get a brazilian wax- hot wax for my sac, crack and base of shaft and strip wax for my abs, and I trim everywhere else to number 1 with clippers. I use garnier summer body moisturiser which has a tanning agent in it. I get my eyebrows threaded and sometimes manicures and pedicures.
[–]Gunslinger_11 1 point 4 days ago
Thanks, I'm able to talk to strangers but I can't ever let my guard down. Believe that's the thing I'm lacking letting myself be vulnerable to relate to others. I've looked up those people on the Internet before who teach that, they did seem sketchy.
I'll pick up that moisturiser, I live in a forever overcast state in the U.S. I'm supposed to be brown that tanning agent will help some. Really, no special face wash?
[–]EngrBiplob 1 point 4 days ago
have you had any incidents when you couldn't perform?
Not as such. I can always get hard. I can usually stay rock hard for the duration if there's always something going on. If proceedings come to a halt for some reason and there's a pause before recommencement, I may need a moment to get back in the mood.
I have had a few instances in the past where a client has wanted me to piss on them and I haven't been able to. I seem to be getting over this. I taught myself to make saliva in my mouth and focus my mind on what is happening in my saliva ducts whilst forgetting about trying to piss. It's weird but that almost instantly gets the stream going.
[–]SBelmont 1 point 4 days ago
How often do you get requests that are non-sexual? ie. Possibly people who are lonely and just want someone to hang out with?
A lot of people contact me because they're lonely and want to hang out but they all also want something sexual.
[–]furiouscottus 1 point 4 days ago
Will you let me know if you're ever in the New England area?
Sure. Contact me via my website please.
[–]stonedlover714 1 point 4 days ago
How did you get start escorting? Also is this what you wanted to do?
[–]DaintyBadass 1 point 4 days ago
How did you tell your family and friends about it? Are they supportive?
I didn't. They'd worry.
[–]spider_pig123 1 point 4 days ago
In your experience, can size really make or break the ability to make a woman cum? What is your advice to someone with average length but slightly below average girth?
Some women like them big, others don't. Women's sexual pleasure is far more tied to their emotions than men's. If she's in love with you, and you feel the same way and you're both doing everything you can to express that physically, chances are she'll love making love with you. I'd say dick size is far more important to men than it is to women. Even straight men seem much more interested in dick size than women. Lots of foreplay is important. I highly recommend learning nude oil massage. Youtube videos are great for learning Swedish and tantric massage. Lot's of foreplay until she's begging for cock. Even tease beyond that eg in missionary at the moment where she thinks you're about to finally put your cock in her, don't. slide it around her outer labia instead then just kiss some more or lick her nipples, kiss her neck etc. Every woman is different in terms of which positions work best and to what extent penetration works vs clitoral stimulation. Ask her what she likes. Every new position ask does she like it this way, deeper, harder, shallower, softer, more like this, want to change positions etc Also use a small bullet vibrator on her clit while fucking her and working up to a more powerful vibrator like a hitachi magic wand.
[–]jewfro667 1 point 4 days ago
How do you cum on command?
I've always been very in tune with where I'm at in terms of how far away from cumming etc and had good control over this. I've developed these kinds of skills as much as possible but I don't think it's that important unless you're escorting or doing porn.
[–]Year_Of_The_Horse_ 1 point 4 days ago
What was your sex life like before you became an escort?
Ever caught an STD? If you did catch something like herpes or genital warts, would you continue to be an escort?
I'd already experimented a lot before escorting. eg with men, TS, threesomes, kink etc. No, I haven't. Neither of those are a big concern. 90 something percent of adults carry hpv which is the virus that can cause genital warts. Most hpv strains do nothing. Some can cause cervical cancer in woman which is why regular pap smear tests are important.
[–]Year_Of_The_Horse_ 1 point 3 days ago
Ever had a long term relationship?
If you did catch something like herpes or genital warts, would you continue to be an escort?
Yes. I'm living with another escort now. She and I treat each other more like friends so no jealousy, no fights. Part 1 of your question I already answered elsewhere on this AMA.
[–]OCesq 1 point 4 days ago
Are you concerned about STDs? How do you protect yourself or even bring it up with clients with it killing the atmosphere/business prospect?
I'm very careful. I always use condoms. Almost all clients know that sex with an escort will be with condoms so there's no need to mention condoms during the booking, I just put one on myself or him at the necessary moment. I get contacted sometimes by people asking for bareback (sex without a condom) and I block their number or email or account on whichever directory they contacted me. I don't want to see someone who initially asks for bareback even if they do agree to use condoms because if that's what they're into, they're at very high risk for STDs and condoms can break. I get a sexual health check-up once every 3 months. Always get the all-clear.
I've answered this elsewhere in the AMA but the most recent kinky thing I did in my life was torture garden. I went to the Torturegarden 25th birthday party fetish club event last Saturday. Thousands of kinksters all together for one big dance party, series of fetish shows, orgies etc
All the pics are of me
[–]shritty 1 point 3 days ago
How old were you when you started this line of job?
[–]Robinmondol 1 point 3 days ago
How old are you? Are your clients mostly women?
29, no, mostly men
[–]lakerland 1 point 2 days ago
How has being so open about your profession positively and negatively effected your personal life and relationships (both sexual and plutonic)?
I haven't told my family or any of my friends who I knew from before I started escorting. But I have a lot of friends I've met since I started escorting who know what I do. I rent out my apartment by the hour to other escorts so I've met a lot of other escorts that way and now I have a huge network of people I know in the industry and some close friends. It's important in this job to have some people you can talk to about jobs who understand. And great to have security buddies who know where you are. I tell someone the location and start/end times of my outcalls so if something did happen and they didn't hear from me and couldn't get in contact with me, they'd send the police. I do the same for them. I've done interviews with some newspapers and radio shows here so in that sense, being open about my profession has brought me a lot of free publicity.
[–]Kosovo_lad -2 points 4 days ago
gonna need more proof there bud
proof of what? The IAMA mods already approved the link I posted as proof..
[–]Kosovo_lad 3 points 4 days ago
what makes you number 1 exactly? Im sure youre an escort
As per my reply to Tom Cruise 😉 > If you do a google search for "male escort" my website is the first result for an independent. I got my search ranking by the usual SEO stuff. Mainly from regularly updating my blog with quality content. Number 1 is very subjective in any other sense but I get a lot of comments along the lines of "you're very relaxing/calming to be around/I was nervous but felt at ease straight away when I met you" etc I'm very professional, I don't use drugs. These set my far apart from the majority of male escorts. I'm always on time for bookings. Again, almost unheard off amongst my peers. I make it very easy and straightforward to make an appointment with me. I go to the gym every day and make a lot of effort with my appearance. I keep a spotlessly clean and very discreet and private incall location. I've studied Thai, Swedish and tantric massage. I have a 9 inch cock and I can get hard instantly every time, always, guaranteed and stay that way for the duration. Then I can cum on cue.
[–]TrumpSRB -3 points 4 days ago
Who would you vote for in the US election?
[–]TrumpSRB -3 points 3 days ago
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