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Elust 142. Image courtesy of Dirk Hooper

21st October 2021
Oz Bigdownunder


Image courtesy of Dirk Hooper.

Welcome to Elust 142.

Elust banners are now appearing on youporn, pornhub and redtube for people searching for erotica. This is mainly aimed at youporn which has an erotica page but the other tube sites were included too. I'm comparing the clicks coming from this with the clicks from the Fetlife banner last month to decide whether to continue with either campaign or maybe try adwords or twitter ads. Still experimenting with different ideas to promote Elust.

Each new edition is emailed out to all 332 subscribers and promoted on twitter and reddit. If everyone who contributes also re-posts the edition on their blog and retweets the tweet announcing the new edition, that's a huge audience you reach by participating.

I'd love to see more people adding their own comments after each link included in the edition when they do the re-post.

For example.

This is optional but I think making the edition unique when you publish it on your own blog will make the search engines happier. The digest code alone is fine but might not be as good for SEO as it would be if you post the digest code plus add your own comments. I'd like Elust to be like a book club where everyone participating reads everything in the new digest and shares their thoughts.

I spent an hour or two per day for the last 3 days copy and pasting the missing Elust editions from the wayback machine into the wordpress post editor. About 75 editions were missing from the archives but they're all restored now. If you click the Archives button at the bottom of the Elust homepage, you'll see all 142 editions going back to October 2009.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #143? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!



The Man with the Golden Tongue

You've got to love those Sybaritic dishabille concubines! Cunning Linguistics!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Is it Normal for Couples to Enjoy Cuckolding

Yes! Erotic masseur James shares his insights into cuckolding. Cuckolding can be "..a way of bringing you closer by increasing trust. Couples in secure, loving relationships feel safe sharing absolutely any sexual fantasy, no matter how taboo it seems." Hear, hear!

Exercise and Sexual Health

Tomideanlynch investigates the connection between physical fitness and sex drive.

Erotic Non-Fiction

King Cocktopus. Duo with a Sexy Couple and Alissa Thorne

This was one fantastic foursome 🙂

Uberkinky Violator. DP Fun with Toys

Can confirm. Awesome toy. It does look pretty intimidating. Like Judge Dredd's truncheon. Keep this one by the bed. Maybe not in the hand luggage.

Sex Sling

This is the Rolls-Royce of sex slings. Luxurious. Inspiring greatness. An everlasting expression of the exceptional. Perfect for fucking on.

Sex Toy Collection

My sex toy shoe box became a sex toy drawer which became a sex toy suitcase and is now a sextoy walk in storage space with about 6 suitcases full of toys. Gotta collect 'em all.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Let's talk Prostate: A guide for those new to Prostate Play

Lenore Sins introduces us to our prostates. I'm thrilled to see the prostate described as a hidden treasure! And also got this Beastie Boys sample playing in my head the second I read it = "Professor, what's another word for "pirate treasure"? Well, I think it's "booty." Booty, booty, that's what it is."

Non-binary Honorific Terms for A Dominant

Some excellent alternatives to "Mistress" and "Master" for addressing Dominants. I love the idea of "Your Majesty" or "Your Highness." I'm going to make one of my slaves use these next time we do a chat session. The linguistic origins of all these terms are fascinating and well worth looking into so that we're aware of the cultural history and to help us choose the best terms for a given dynamic.

The Mystery That is Madam Maeve

Highly recommended. The interviewer asks some very insightful questions and Madam Maeve is extremely knowledgeable and conveys her thoughts in a clear and concise manner. I liked her quote regarding Pro Dommes providing a unique type of therapy and subs experiencing a release of trauma.

Erotic Fiction

When Friends Share

I've used this get blindfolded and guess who's touching you game on MMF duos and with couples before to help guys explore their bisexuality. I never thought of using sex acts as rewards for guessing correctly. Definitely going to try this!

Rich Old Bitch

There's something very intense and ambiguous about Sissitrix's drawings and words. I love these posts. Still can't decide if I find this horrifying or sexy. Both.

Wicked Wednesday: Droit de Seigneur 11

Droit de seigneur: the alleged right of a medieval feudal lord to have sexual intercourse with a vassal's bride on her wedding night.

I know a cuckold or two who'd happily dial a time machine back to medieval times and serve a feudal lord.

Couple of Boys

Two lucky boys stumble into Mistress Victory's lair and get tied to St Andrews crosses, nipple clamped, butt plugged, e-stimmed and more leading to a forced-bi final act as poetic as it is sticky.


A sub receives an over the knee spanking. And she loves it.


Alliance of Independent Sex Toy Testers

A list of sex toy reviewers who have been democratically voted in. Each reviewer is confirmed by everyone else on the list to be genuine, honest, authentic, inclusive, embracing of diversity, ethical and endeavouring to only promote body safe toys.

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Author: Oz Bigdownunder

Australian Bi male masseur and escort for men, women, threesomes with couples and duos with female or transsexual escorts.
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