I was recently interviewed by Podopheleus about being The Number One Male Escort in the World. The interview was focussed on my BDSM, kink and fetish activities such as cuckolding and forced-bi.
Podopheleus is a submissive male kinkster, author, rhymer, sexworker ally and men’s mental health supporter.
I recommend Pod's book, Triple Formed, "..a journey of sexual exploration, foot fetishes, semen retention and so much more.”
Pod is an advocate for a mindful approach to the exploration of fantasies, fetishes, kinks and desires, which he refers to as Sexual Equanimity. I love this concept.
In Buddhism, equanimity is one of the four sublime attitudes: Not a thought nor an emotion, but rather the steady conscious realization of the transient nature of reality. It is the grounds for freedom, wisdom and the protector of compassion and love.
What a great attitude!
Read the full interview here.
I've had lots of practice answering the how did you end up as a male escort question as it's been asked in most of my interviews. The answer I gave here pretty much sums it up. I could never go back to working 9-5 in a corporate office job. Escorting seems to be a perfect fit for my skillset and life priorities. I'm proud of what I've achieved in this line of work so far and have some goals in mind that I'm still working towards.
Always good to find the right niche to specialise in.
I'm number 19 for male escort now in google search results but there's still no other independents above me in the search results.
Only directories and articles. So technically, I'm number one in the world.
There's still a lot more I want to achieve.
There's something missing in the way clients are connecting with providers and I think I know what that is. I have an idea for a new kind of website I want to build. In a few years time I plan to have built something that will revolutionise the industry.
Lola from tryst.link has asked me to write a guide for male sexworkers for their sexworker resources page. The above quote is a good place to start and I'll search through my reddit comment history and try to edit some of my comments together where I've replied to aspiring male escorts asking for advice. I might also re-use some of the paragraphs from my How to Get Started as a Sexworker guide which is stickied on the sexworkers subreddit.
Thank you very much to Podopheleus for the interview!